Questions I wish someone on earth had the answers to

[morrigirl]

Am I evil?

What's wrong with me?

Why am I like this?

Why can't I be normal?

Am I ugly?



I wish I could just be a regular 24 year old enjoying the things that 24 year olds enjoy.

Comments

Re: Silly girl.

[morrigirl.livejournal.com]

Okay I'll give you #1

#2: Well if we're all infants that why are all the other kids getting married and having children and having social lives? Obviously I'm not up to snuff with the rest of my class.

#3: Like I said in my entry I've tried every method I know of to change myself into the person I'd rather be. Nothing I've tried has worked. Even after years of devotion, nothing has worked. I'm just LIKE this, I'm stating to think there is no changing it.

#4: People fall in love with your weaknesses? I've never known that to be the case. I'm over flowing with weakness *looks around* no love for me. My weaknesses are ...and my strength for that matter are unlovable. I don't know why, they just are. And as for normality I mean why I can't I like the things other 24 year olds like? Why can't I enjoy parties? Alcohol? Video games? All the things 24 year olds do for fun don't appeal to me and it makes me the odd kid out. I want to be in the "in crowd."

Re: Silly girl.

[dpsycho.livejournal.com]

#2 I'd wager to say that the majority of our population isn't getting married and having children by 24. Give it some time. Furthermore, these things aren't necessary to living a complete life. As much as I hate to agree with some of Knox's most militant feminists, you do not need marriage to a man to be complete. Just give it time.

As far as having a social life, well, the best I can offer is the generic advice of finding a group to join or something. Anything where you meet with people regularly for some kind of an activity. (I assume that time socializing online doesn't count from your perspective? You clearly have friends online.)

#3 Then, as I said, stop worrying about change. You don't have to fit yourself to this world; you have to let the world fit to you. No one expects you to be "perfect," and only an imbecile would demand perfection.

#4 "Flaws" was the word I was looking for, but yes. As for your list of common 24-year-old activities, I only commonly engage in the third myself. That's a really short list, too. What about Internet, reading, and movies about Caribbean pirates? Surely you're not the only person in our age bracket who likes the kind of music you do or who can have nostalgic conversations about 80's pop-culture you used to enjoy.

Shed a little more light on the positive, hon. *hugs*