I know what you mean. Sometimes, around certain people.. it seems like my being nice is wasted. It's certainly not encouraging when that happens :/ But it's always good when someone is more receptive to niceness. Then again.. I have no idea how my kindness might affect someone.. it might affect them in ways I can't see. But it's definetly a turn-off if it seems like my kindness is being taken advantage of. I've always really appreciated your kind words to me, even though I have probably never said so. You make me want to do nice things for you :)
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Date: 2006-02-14 11:17 pm (UTC)But it's always good when someone is more receptive to niceness. Then again.. I have no idea how my kindness might affect someone.. it might affect them in ways I can't see. But it's definetly a turn-off if it seems like my kindness is being taken advantage of.
I've always really appreciated your kind words to me, even though I have probably never said so. You make me want to do nice things for you :)
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Date: 2006-02-16 06:15 am (UTC)