This made me happy for some wacky reason.
Sep. 14th, 2004 02:40 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
morrigirlTaken from this weeks Savage Love colemn in which a young lady who was kind enough to indulge her bf's voyeur fetish wrote in to ask Dan what she should do now that her bf is taking advantage of her willingness to participate by engaging in practices she isn't comfortable with.
Dan addressed the following to the idiot boyfriend:
"You are a fucking dumb asshole—do you know that? It's shit-brained freaks like you who ruin it for all the other kinky straight men out there! The number one reason cited by women who are reluctant to indulge their male partners' kinks is the fear that they're stepping onto a slippery slope. They worry that their husbands and boyfriends, once indulged, will be unwilling or unable to enjoy plain ol' vanilla sex ever again—a/k/a "the basics." Kinky guys who are lucky enough to find themselves dating or married to GGG women should be considerate, loving, and non-basics-neglecting, so that their wives and girlfriends will talk up the benefits of being GGG to their female friends, thereby increasing the supply of GGG women in the world. When a kinky guy acts like you, fuckhead, it decreases the number of GGG women in the world! Christ!"
The lesson? "A wife who will indulge her husband in an extreme fetish is a rare treasure, a jewel, and any husband who abuses a treasure like you by pushing her too far, too fast, or by neglecting the basics, deserves to lose that treasure."
Right on Dan.
Dan addressed the following to the idiot boyfriend:
"You are a fucking dumb asshole—do you know that? It's shit-brained freaks like you who ruin it for all the other kinky straight men out there! The number one reason cited by women who are reluctant to indulge their male partners' kinks is the fear that they're stepping onto a slippery slope. They worry that their husbands and boyfriends, once indulged, will be unwilling or unable to enjoy plain ol' vanilla sex ever again—a/k/a "the basics." Kinky guys who are lucky enough to find themselves dating or married to GGG women should be considerate, loving, and non-basics-neglecting, so that their wives and girlfriends will talk up the benefits of being GGG to their female friends, thereby increasing the supply of GGG women in the world. When a kinky guy acts like you, fuckhead, it decreases the number of GGG women in the world! Christ!"
The lesson? "A wife who will indulge her husband in an extreme fetish is a rare treasure, a jewel, and any husband who abuses a treasure like you by pushing her too far, too fast, or by neglecting the basics, deserves to lose that treasure."
Right on Dan.
